Sunday, 29 April 2012

And How the Relations Break(Story of a Passionate Lover)

''No I can't listen any word now neither I need to,Everything is finished,I just want to erase every thought and wound from my Hear and mind".
His Voice was trembling, had tears in Eyes and suddenly dropped the Call.These were not dialogues of any emotive Movie but Feelings of a Lover who I was talking to.

Yesterday Evening on my way Back to home after Jogging I thought to call my Friend and ask about happenings back-town.As I dialled his number strangely his Mom Picked up the Call and asked who's speaking,I was amazed but asked them to give phone to him.It was after Long time I called him,couldn't get time cause of busyness in Studies and other affairs,by the way friends remain same even after years or Months we remember them.After formal ''Salam Dua''I questioned about what keeps you busy nowadays..Reply wasn't less shocking when I listened a Nurse on that side saying, its injection time.He put the call on Hold and I thought he might have unwellness or formal disease,after a minute when He continued I asked are you in Hospital?what happened to you?

His tone was quite Sad and disappointed.I got anxious and asked again the same.After all He's one from my Precious friends I'd ever,we spent 8 years in School and were much close to each other.He couldn't hide anything and after some words of Courage he started telling me whatever he gone through from.

"She came two years ago in my life,we're friends at initial time but as time was passing we were coming close to each other and Soon that Friendship turned into Love.We started sharing every moment with each other.Day by day Roots of our Relation were Strengthening.
After one year we decided to tell our Parents about our Relation,I was only Son that's why it didn't took much time to take my Family on Point.My parents went their home with proposal of Marriage,Our Families agreed and after a month we tied in engagement.We started going out on Picnic and enjoyed moments together We were in-touch every minute through Mobile and Facebook,These were glorious moments I've ever had in my Life,but I didn't know I'll have to pay a Huge Price of it.!!"

"He stopped,took a deep Breath and continued again,Some Moths back I saw a guy in profile of my Lover(Likely to be my wife)He used to comment on Her Pics,status updates and and liked what she posted.I didn't notice as usual.
One day,when she was with me and I had her cell in my hand,a text came with words of 'Lovely' 'Sweet' and 'dear' and also some more sentences.It was shocking for me,I noticed the number and tried to trace by different means.after some days a situation occurred on me like I had Burden of 7 Mountains on my Shoulders when I came to know that this number was related to that guy who I overlooked as usual.
I had her Password and as I logged into her account I was dread to see messages of my Lover with a stranger.She sent him her Personal pics and told him much about herself even she was with her on mobile calls also."

"I was weeping,outrageously crying and couldn't remain in senses,I didn't need any support that time.I called her and said her just to get lost from my life and never come back..I committed my Life for Her,lived the way she desired for,accepted her every word by Heart did my Best what a Lover could do for His love and what She did?My Question was only WHY?was there any Lack in my Love,why She?LOVE is name of Trust and Believe but why She Broke both on which our Relation was Establish I had no choice but to finish myself I couldn't control myself and cut my wrist.after that I don't know how my Parent took me in Hospital and saved me He cried and cut the call."

After this Call,
I was walking along the Road silently,everything around me was moving like Clouds,no noise only silence,I was imagining the condition of a Guy my dearest Friend who Lost his everything in Love and was on Stage between Life and Death.A Question was again and again occurring in mind,Why Girls/Boys do this?why they play with other's lives?If you feeling Bored with your Partner just let Him go.why you Destroy not only his But Lives of whole Family..??Just for yourself,just for the Reason you have enjoyed and used that Guy too much and now searching for a new one?

This was the story of A Lover,which forced me to write.Everyday we come across stories like this but we Learn what?I think nothing,system of our society is going as it was.Nobody is giving his contribution to change something which could save anyone from situation like this.
Now Question which arises in every mind,Is this ''Love''?which people talk about a lot,Poets write too much about it and everybody must have at-least once in his Life.
According to my research and Poor knowledge which I collected from my bit experience Love is a Pure Virtue which Bases on Believe and when Believe in someone is finished,we can't give that Relation title of Love.T
here are Three types of Lover roaming in our Society.

First are those who have some seriousness towards any Relation but don't have any and willing to let someone enter in their life.they spend much their time without someone.But when anybody enters in their life they start giving him/her much of their time and try to make strong their Relation.They believe in their fellows and want same from those.their Relation is based on Trust and Understanding  Once they loose any of these they do what my friend did mentioned up...Sometimes they have to give up for some serious reasons and couldn't carry that Relation.

Second who are non serious with having a relation around their.they Build relations on basis of Fun and enjoyment.Someone as come in their Life they start saying I Love you,you are most precious for me and many other formal sentences to impress their Fellows.this way their Relation passes with time and when it comes to an end it doesn't affect on them much.

Third one is much deliberated kind of Lovers,these should not get any encourage in Society but unfortunately  this type is Prevailing with fastness in our society.These people make Relations with a aim and after getting their Goals they leave that person and Spoils his/her Life.These type of Persons are a shit on society,they make place in other's Heart and when they got it they Leave that person madly for them.its their daily Job and they don't feel any shame in doing this.

Our Youth is going on wrong way,we need a Better way,someone who could lead them in a good way.We are in Modern era and have a mind to think and a Heart to understand the Feelings.So we should Lead ourselves in Better way not in worst track whose ending could be Dangerous for us and Our Families related to us..!!

Tuesday, 10 April 2012

Why Can't We adopt West for Betterment..?

"We will fulfill every Promise and Bring Change in our Society,and only we will change Standard of Living of our people".
This is the slogan of every Political party which catches Fire near Elections.
At age of eight on the way to School I saw written on wall''We'll not let our people down before any power''now I have grown up to nineteen years and what I have seen so far and what I am expecting in future,every my Nation-mate have seen how much we have compensated from our Nation Lover Leaders.

Nations Learn from happenings,mistakes and wrong doings,But we purely have a backward Curve,We repeat again and again to get differ results,sometimes on America's saying we take funds of millions of dollars and Fight with those who we don't have any battle with and Shape that of Religion,Then on America's wish we again go in WAR for some more dollars which we even couldn't get after destroying Billions and thousands Lives,we have destroyed everything and still we couldn't Learn anything.

Others wrong doings let us do worst in reply of Bad.Do our leaders only know how to Sit in talk shows and alleging others,if they are Pointing out there Mistakes.
''Education'' ''Health'' ''Safety'' ''Facilities'' ''Betterment'' ''Dignity'' ''Lifestyle'' what we have Pure in our lives as PAKISTANIS..?Since when Pakistan came into exist,''Dictators ''and ''Politicians'' are Steering this Boat,But who thought about ''PUBLIC'' except of fighting for Chair and Power..?
Every new day we listen our Leaders that they can't collect TAX in well manner that's why inflation is increasing.I tell you how to collect,Our Ministers Visit every next week to a new Country,Don't they know that in US,UK,Australia and other Countries how they Collect TAX?If know then I tell you that if anybody wants to do job there,either he is a security guard or a Bank manager or Professional of any other field,he must register for NI National Insurance number with His Bank account and Tax of Employ directly debits from his account.Why can't we Apply it in our Society..?

Collection Of Road Duty:If you have a car,you can't take it on Road unless you have Paid insurance and Road Tax,from this way they collect TAX and Road Duty,But here We can Drive all around the Country even without Registration,all we need is just a Big contact in any State Department.
Citizen's Safety:If you just slap someone,you will be prosecuted and will have to pay compensation for it,in offensive matters you'll go to Jail,If we look Our Society here if someone is brutally beaten and goes to Police Station,he'll need to Pay police officers for registering FIR.
Everyday Target Killing and Extortion in Karachi  made People sick and tired of this,but nobody is ready to fix the Solution,Govt and their allies are enjoying Chairs and making people fool.

For Prevention of Smoking and Filth: Smoking isn't allowed in Buses and Public areas and you can't throw rubbish on Floor,State imposes these laws and Public acts upon this,and those who don't,they have to face the Music.

How many more Lies are left unspoken with Public of Pakistan..?Are we too tiny that we can't make these laws..?Millions of Rupees we spend on every Assembly Meeting and what outcome we get..?
NOTHING,NOTHING,and NOTHING...!!Sometimes fight of MNA's,Sometimes cross words by Ladies MPA's on floor and sometimes vulgar Language on floor and on Stage and Sometime Useless Bills which have no Power to Stop any Drone,Target Killing or Blast.For Chair They can do anything,they forgive murders to come into Power..
I wish they could do it for People of ''ISLAMIC REPUBLIC OF PAKISTAN''who deserve this and with every dawn Expect this from them.
So that we can deliver good image of ourselves and  Can get Respect back of GREEN PASSPORT.